With toddlers this young, the private entrance game changes everything. Disney's Grand Californian eliminates the morning gauntlet—you walk straight into California Adventure before crowds hit, no parking lot shuffle with three small kids in tow. If you want more flexibility and don't need that private gate, Disney's Pixar Place Hotel gives you nearly identical park access at a noticeably lower price. Skip the off-property options here; the convenience tax is worth it with 2-, 3-, and 4-year-olds.