With kids this young, proximity to rides and avoiding extra friction is everything. Disney's Grand Californian is the outlier here—that private DCA entrance means your toddlers can hit attractions in under 10 minutes from your room, no security lines or parking lot negotiations. If you want to stay on Disney property without the Grand Californian's price tag, Disneyland Hotel delivers character and immediate park access. Great Wolf Lodge is the smart play if your crew wants a full day of built-in entertainment without leaving the property, though it's not Disney. The other picks are solid logistics plays but won't move the needle for this age group.