With teens aged 14 and 16, you're past the splash-pad phase but not yet ready for adults-only. Grand Hyatt Kauai and Fairmont Orchid lead because they nail the sweet spot: snorkel lagoons and cultural programming that don't feel babyish, plus enough resort infrastructure that your kids can self-entertain while you actually relax. Kauai and the Big Island are quieter plays than Maui or Oahu—better for families who want real downtime, not theme-park energy. Budget-conscious? Andaz Maui cuts the luxury price without gutting the experience.