With toddlers this young, your real choice comes down to logistics: do you want a full kitchen to wrangle meals and snacks, or would all-inclusive simplicity beat that headache. Hyatt Regency wins on polish and kids programming if you're willing to eat out; La Cabana or Playa Linda make sense if you'd rather cook some days and have suite space to spread out. All sit on Aruba's gentlest beaches. Skip the fancy branding — pick based on whether you're cooking or not.